Some Thoughts on Sexuality

SexToday, we live in an increasingly sexually-charged culture. How can followers of Christ please God in the area of their sexuality? After all, God intended sex to be sacred.

Firstly, make a commitment to sexual purity. Unless you do, it is unlikely that you will unintentionally slide towards it.… Read the rest

Some Thoughts on Family Conflict

ConflictRelationships are built and maintained through communication. When communication breaks down, so do relationships. Consider the quality and nature of the conversation in your relationships. It creates an atmosphere.

Eph. 4:29. Do not let unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.Read the rest

Some Thoughts on Parenting

ParentYou can become a a father or a mother in an instant, but it takes a lifetime to learn to be a good parent. After all, kids arrive without instructions and each child is pre-wired (no 'blank slates'!) uniquely. 

What are some important principles for parents?Read the rest

Some Thoughts on Marriage

MarriageAccording to the recent national census (2010), 49.4% of people in Australia are married. The medium age of a first marriage for men is 29.6 years old and 27.7 for women. Choosing to marry someone is an important decision that needs to be undertaken with much prayer and consideration.… Read the rest

Some Thoughts on Dating

DatingAt some stage, many single people move into a romantic relationship with someone from their circle of friends. This in often an exciting yet somewhat scary time. Although it's often too early to tell, ideally, the couple see each other as a potential spouse, not just a relationship of convenience, which can easily become selfish and abusive. 

Moving from a friendship to romantic relationship with another person is an important decision and needs to be done with prayer and wisdom.… Read the rest

Some Thoughts on Singleness

SingleBased on last year's national Australia census (2010), 41.9% of adults in our local State of Victoria are single. They include people who have never married (because they chose not to marry or have not found a partner) or those who have been married but are single again because of the death of a spouse or through divorce.… Read the rest

Update on the State of the Family

FamilyCreated for Relationship

The book of Genesis is the book of beginnings. It doesn’t tell us when the world was created or much about how the world was created (two matters that continue to be hotly debated today) … but it does tell us who created the world (God) and why he created it.… Read the rest

The Parable of the Vineyard Workers

Vineyard-workersThe parable of the vineyard workers (Matt.20:1-16) is unique to Matthew, although Jesus’ teaching about the first and last is not (see Mark 9:35. Luke 13:30 and also Mt.23:12). In this story, we have a vineyard owner visiting the marketplace looking for an influx of day workers to help with the grape harvest.… Read the rest

A Word for You …

GodOn the weekend, I shared a few messages I felt that God put on my heart for various groups of people in our church. Here is a brief summary of them:

1. "You're It!"

Did you ever play tag when you were a kid?… Read the rest

What Season Are You In?

SeasonRight now it is autumn here in Australia and I love it. The spectaular colours of the leaves display the creativity of our amazing God. Seasons – God created them. He told Noah: "As long as the earth endures, seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, summer and winter, day and night will never cease (Gen.8:22)." Later on, Solomon noted that, "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens … (Ecc.3:1)"

Verteran pastor Bill Hybels wisely notes that every church and organisation goes through various seasons and that the leaders job is to discern the season, name it, and work with what God is doing.… Read the rest

Preparing to Preach …

PreachPreaching God's Word at any time and in any context is always a great privilege and, at the same time, a great responsibility. All of us desire to speak by revelation, to believe for impartation (not just information), and to aim for transformation, as well as a demonstration of the Holy Spirit at work in people's lives.… Read the rest

The Parable of the Wheat and Weeds

WeedsThe parable of the wheat and the weeds (Mt.13:24-30) is unique to Matthew and is one of the few parables for which Jesus provides a detailed interpretation (Mt.13:36-43). The farmer represents Jesus as the Son of Man. The field is the world and the good seed are the children of the kingdom who are in relationship with God the Father.… Read the rest

Living in this moment – NOW

NowMost of our minds are busy thinking about either the past or the future. Very few of us live fully in the present moment. Yes, there is an appropriate time to remember the past and to contemplate the future but we are not to live in either place.… Read the rest